Not Your Therapist
Life is messy, relationships are complicated, and let’s be real—mental health can feel like a full-time job. If you’re looking for down-to-earth, no-BS conversations about navigating stress, relationships, and personal growth, you’re in the right place.
I’m Kayla Reilly, a licensed therapist, entrepreneur, and real-life human who knows that wellness isn’t about perfection—it’s about finding what actually works for you. This show is for anyone who wants approachable mental health tools, relatable insights, and a little humor along the way.
Each episode, we break down the good, the bad, and the downright frustrating parts of life—from managing anxiety and breaking toxic patterns to setting boundaries and creating balance (without the guilt). No therapy jargon, no fluff—just real talk and practical strategies to help you feel more grounded in your everyday life.
Hit play, get comfortable, and let’s figure this life thing out together.
Not Your Therapist
TOOLBOX: Using Your Container — An Emotional Regulation Skill for Overwhelm
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When emotions spike, it’s easy to feel flooded, anxious, or unable to focus. This TOOLBOX episode teaches you how to use your container—a simple, EMDR-informed emotional regulation skill—to manage overwhelming thoughts and feelings without suppressing them.
If you’ve already created a container, this episode shows you how to use it in real-life moments: when anxiety rises, intrusive thoughts loop, or emotions feel too big to hold. If you haven’t, you can still follow along and learn how containment works as a nervous-system regulation tool.
In this guided episode, you’ll learn:
- When to use your container for emotional overwhelm
- How to place thoughts, feelings, or memories into the container safely
- Why containment helps calm the nervous system
- How to return to the present without avoidance or shutdown
This episode is especially helpful for people experiencing anxiety, grief, emotional flooding, or difficulty turning their thoughts off. It’s designed to be saved and reused whenever you need support.
This podcast is meant to be a conversation — not a lecture. 🖤
Have thoughts, questions, or a topic you want covered? Or want to share how this episode supported you?
Email me at kayla@evolutionwellnessnc.com
or find me on social at @itskaylareilly. I genuinely love hearing what you’re navigating. ✨